So I've been back in the States for two weeks now, and wow has it been insane. I've pretty much been going non-stop since I landed in Miami on the 21st and it doesn't look like things are gonna slow down anytime soon for me.
I spent the week of Thanksgiving with my Mom and sister, Jo, and then headed to La Grande, Oregon( where I call home currently) on the 26th and started back at work and youth group on the 29th. Between work, church, youth group, and catching up with friends it just doesn't seem like there has been much down time.
Don't get me wrong, I'm glad I'm home, but its been HARD being back and Exhausting. From readjusting to the West Coast time zone, to remembering I don't have to wear the same shirt three days in a row, to finding good quality quiet time...oh ya and I can flush the toilet paper, and what's that? Food I recognize...and so much more. I find myself easily getting upset by what people say..
for example, in the Miami airport I over heard someone saying how it wasn't fancy enough for them, and all I could think of was what's not fancy about this place...it's got A.C., running water, electricity, it has restaurants, free wifi, and so much more...how can they say this place isn't fancy.. and then on my flight from Chicago to Portland I found myself angry and upset at an ad on the in-flight television about a new drone that is being created to fly around third world countries to bring wifi to remote villages..all I could think i get that wifi is a good thing to have, but don't people realize that WiFi isn't a necessity..no people need food, electricity, running water..people need hope; hell what the world needs is for people to give a damn, for people to care... and with that yes, adjusting home has been hard.
I find myself often wondering what my squad is up to; thinking about how I wish they were here to bounce ideas off, to keep me accountable for my quiet times, for how much time I spend on WiFi. I often wish I was back out on the field, wishing the World Race wasn't over yet, because that would be a simpler time. Simpler time...if you'd of asked me six months ago if I thought the World Race would be "simpler" than living back in the states I would have said you were nuts...sleeping on the ground easier than a bed, food I don't recognize or have eaten so much of I'm sick of it, not knowing if my clothes are gonna be dry or not before a travel day..no I would never have said that would be easier but now I wish for those days at times...deciding how often to do my laundry to keep up with cultural appropriateness on clean clothes, being in a living limbo for yet another month before moving into an apartment with friends, the cold (I miss the warmth of Argentina right now), trying to figure out what to do with my time when I do have free time; trying to find quality Jesus time, trying to figure out where I fit into and just always feeling exhausted
This last weekend, well Friday night/Saturday day I was home alone. Totally alone for about 24 hours, and when I got home from work..I sat down and thought about it and was like wow this is the first time in about 12 months I've been 100% guaranteed no interruptions alone and I'm too exhausted to enjoy it. I didn't want to do anything productive, I had no energy to watch a sermon, do a quiet time, read, pr even really watch a movie.....later that night I was Facebook Messaging a friend and had mentioned that it was the first time I was truly alone, and he was like ENJOY IT...and I was like I'm too exhausted and that I hadn't really had time to process the race or had a good quiet time...and he was like we'll whats one thing you want to do and haven't done yet...and I was like find a a good spot to star gaze (its something I really got into while traveling this year) and he was like well do it tomorrow and then I'll ask you about it tomorrow night. By this point of our conversation I was curled up in my bed watching a show on Netflix when I sat up paused it, and thought out loud why wait 'til tomorrow. I'm home alone now, I could just go out side tonight. So I did, I went out into the front yard with my cell phone in my back pocket, and started looking up at the sky when I realized there were no stars, but there was snow falling down around me, and it was a beautiful night, so I turned on some worship music on my phone ("Good Good Father", and then "No Longer Slaves") and just started worshiping God. I spent probably 30 minutes or outside just worshiping and talking to God and dancing in the snow, and came back in and realized that was the most relaxed, the least exhausted I'd been since being back in the States. I went back into the house when I was done, stood by the wood stove to warm up and texted my friend back saying that I had accepted his challenge to do something I'd wanted to do, and upped it by doing it that night instead of waiting, and telling him just how much I needed that night and thanked him for challenging me.
A lot has happened in the last few weeks. I've started back at Taco Time working. I've moved back to La Grande. I've started back at my church, and my old Youth Group...I've started to try and figure out where I "fit" again. Trying to work the pieces back together to take the next step towards where God wants me for this next chapter of my life. But in the mean time I've also come to realize that sometimes you just need to go into the darkness of the night, to let things out, to have a good long talk with God, to let him show you what he wants, what he needs. And sometimes when you go into that darkness, you walk out of the darkness with a new perspective.
So I challenge you....I challenge you to go and do something you want to do that you've never done... I challenge you to take something from your I'll do this in the future list and do it now...don't put off for tomorrow what you can do today...step out into the darkness of the unknown, of the I want to do this but I'm scared to try it, and do it...because you never know what might happen. For me stepping outside into the darkness resulted in the best thirty minutes of my life in the last two weeks and gave me more energy then I would have expected to keep on going. It gave me the energy I needed to be able to enjoy that time by myself.
What's your darkness? What is that one thing you need/want to do? GO AND DO IT!
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